questions
Posted on October 24, 2007
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asking a question in order to know something better and clearer, that’s not too much, it it? maybe its the way and also the words used which are misused, ended up in a terrible argument.
humans come from various background, different family, different education level, and that is why we have many many different kinds of characters and personalities living in this world. even twins have different characters and personalities.
getting together with other different peoples of different characters is not easy. it takes time, effort, and commitment. in order to get along with someone, you’ll need to really spend time to understand that person, especially when you are planning to be with that person for a long time. some people tend to take a very short period of time to understand someone, others tend to take longer period to do so, some even take ages to get to know a person. well i guess i’m the 3rd kind, rite?
is it really that hard to get along with a person? or is it really difficult to understand someone? i’ll say that both parties need to work together to make things happen. 1 side hand doesn’t clap.
there are people who try to know the others before getting along with them, there are also people who start understanding someone after they get along with them. i guess i’m both. it is okay if someone comes to me and tell me straight in my face that i’m a weirdo, i’ll accept that.
okay, how do we define tolerate? same meaning as give and take, right? dealing with people requires lots and lots of tolerance. without it, no chemistry will ever happen between 2 different individual. compromising is another crucial point to be taken note when one tries to get along with another. no body’s perfect, even god is not. if he is, there will never be gays and lesbians. if god is perfect, there will never be illness or war, there will never be murders and crimes happening.
we as human beings learn how to become someone who others look upon, someone who the others wants to learn from. i always admit that i’m not good at all, nothing better than a pile of shit that has just been disposed. seriously, i’m having problems, big ones, i can’t seem to grab hold onto dealing with people the right way. if there is one. i tend to get excited over small things that others thinks that its a joke. i tend to get over reacted over lil matters that others don’t even give a damn to it. i tend to be over protecting when i’m in a relationship, and i tend to ask lots and lots of stupid questions to the other half. i know it pisses her off, but that’s the only way for me to get the answer to the question in my head. i don’t wanna guess, i don’t wanna predict, and i don’t wanna assume.
if anyone out there who can somehow advice me on this matter, i would be very great full, otherwise i dun think that i can count on myself. not at all.
grievances? surrounded by them. failure? u’re reading one’s blog.
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complain la complain la… a best yet simple way to communicate wif ppl (me) is to make things simple… =D learnt ur lessons yet??